This blog is too get something off my chest that is really just annoying the crap out of me! I have had my experiences with bad men and now that I have a good one I am very much happy and blessed, but I still have found that even with this I can't shake shady catty women who try to infringe on my relationship! I can't stand it when women have issues with their confidence so badly that they have to have men in their life to make them feel better. We need to have more invested in ourselves than to have to turn too some man for their opinion.
I had this very issue back in the day, but I have quickly grown out of it. I never tried to sabotage another woman's relationship. I knew when to back off. I find that there are even women out there who don't want your guy, but they don't want him with you either. They are so miserable with their own life they just want to make others miserable too. Please if you are miserable get some help, but stop trying to make others feel the same way.
I can not believe some people. Especially women lately who I have found for the most part to be so catty, jealous, and just down right EVIL! They get with other women who are feeling down about life and they trash anyone they feel inferior too. They spread lies, gossip, and talk just to tear someone else down. I know I at one time didn't like my life, still parts I am working on, but I never tried to make others feel horrible or talk badly of them. If I did do this and do not recall I am very sorry. I am just so annoyed right now.
I have had one too many women in the past year stab me in the back. They spread their lies to other women who were catty and jealous and that in turn made some men turn their backs on me too. So people say to ignore it. It's hard to ignore when everyone turns against you and you have to quit jobs on account of gossip and bullying. No more this year! Sorry to rant, but I am tired of shady people and people who just want to hurt someone because they don't like themselves. We were taught not to make drama and to keep things like this to ourselves, but honestly it's gotten out of hand and I will speak my mind about it.